[AArch64] Don't remove free sext_inreg(vector_extract(x)) if it leads to multiple extracts

If we have sext_inreg(vector_extract(x)) but the top bits are not used, DAG
will try to remove the sext_inreg, using vector_extract(x) directly. This can
lead to multiple uses of both sext_inreg(vector_extract(x)) and
vector_extract(x), leading to the generation of both umov and smov extracts.
This adds a target hook to prevent that under AArch64 where the sext_inreg can
be considered free if there are multiple uses of the sext and no uses of the
vector_extract. This helps fix a small regression from D144550.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D144850